[Paddlewise] kayaking couples...

From: Ari Saarto <asaarto_at_lpt.fi>
Date: Mon, 23 Feb 1998 21:09:06 +0000
 I am leaving for holidays, but before that few lines:

I met my girlfriend after spending one summer learning sea kayaking.  
She is 28, me 36 and she comes from a small village from the Middle 
Finland.  Very accustomed to walking and trekking in the woods - 
but a complete beginner at sea, and smaller in size and physical 
strenght.  Well, as I have described before, that has lead us 
sometimes in rather c o m p l i c a t e d  situations: I am 
surely getting sometimes overactive when at sea  :-)  enjoying all.

After meeting her she surely noticed, that there is no way to avoid 
going to the sea - me being as crazy as one can get.  She learned 
very quickly and showed some persistence when during the first try 
she capsized after the veryu first  four metres of paddling (went 
back to the club´s shed, changed clothes & started again).
What a woman can do to be with his man -sigh!-

It is interesting to notice, how after living inlands in an area full 
of woods, she can also feel sometimes very unsecure if we are making
crossings at open sea, even if the weather is brilliant.  Well, that 
must happen to everyone sometimes...her carefulness and patience do 
show up my impatience very often.  It might be one of the good 
consequences of a good relationship: to learn a litlle more about 
yourself and your weaknesses.

If willing to improve your realtionship, try kayaking a double.  
Seems to be a real test sometimes  :-)

Cheers,
Ari Saarto
"Think about your hips 
- a good sea kayaker is also 
a worthy partner in samba..."
Kannaksenkatu 22 / P.O. 92
15141 Lahti - Finland - Europe
GSM +358 - 50 - 526 5892
fax. +358 - 3 - 828 2815
e-mail: asaarto_at_lpt.fi
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