I hate it when people call as I am packing or trying to get to the rendezvous on time. One consequence of accepting people at the last minute is that they might be less prepared than they should be, especially if they are novices. Whenever I led an overnight trip for the North Star Ski Touring club, I tried to schedule a planning meeting about a week before the trip to arrange carpooling and other resources, hand out maps and minimum impact rules, and so forth. It was generally the people who missed the meeting who were the biggest problem. One woman who missed the meeting for a beginners' winter camping trip also failed to read the literature I sent her. She not only showed up in jeans, but brought the wrong food. Needless to say, she was the only one who suffered from the cold. Chuck Holst -----Original Message----- From: Larry Snow [mailto:larry.snow_at_deltec.com] Sent: Thursday, July 09, 1998 3:13 PM To: 'paddlewise_at_lists.intelenet.net Subject: RE: [Paddlewise] etiquette My experience in such situations is not with sea kayaking trips, but is similar. I have led a number of other trips for a local outing club and have found that very often people will wait until the last minute to sign up for the trip -- even one where it is obvious that advance arrangements must be made. I remember one weekend snowshoe trip I led with room for 8 people. The trip was posted for a month and only 5 people signed up, but that was still enough to go. I was doing the kitchen arrangements, so I did the shopping and packing Thursday evening (we were leaving Friday after work). I got not one, not two, but three calls from people at about 9:00 p.m. Thursday evening who wanted to go on the trip. I wonder when they expected me to make the advanced preparations? I had room for all three, but turned them down because I didn't want to redo the kitchen. I guess I just got hard-nosed about it after that, and if people called me at the last minute, I turned them down, even for trips that didn't require advanced preparation. I figured that I've got to train people that they have to plan ahead for these types of things, and there are consequences (i.e. not going along) if they don't. >---------- >From: Mark Zen[SMTP:canoeist_at_netbox.com] >Sent: Wednesday, July 08, 1998 11:08 PM >To: paddlewise_at_lists.intelenet.net; CPAKayaker_at_lists.shire.net >Subject: [Paddlewise] etiquette > >here's the situation. you announce a club trip, at a generally popular >place, and the announcement goes out with 2 months notice in the club's >newsletter. it also goes to the club website. the "event" is two day >trips in the area [not same place both days]. at what point do you say: >"there's been no interest, trip is cancelled" and then start telling >everyone [if anyone] who calls, that very thing?? no calls by the wednesday >before [it's a 4 hour drive, and the leaders leaving friday noon, but has >to make reservations for friday night, by noon thursday]... do that many >people really wait until thursday & friday to call the coodinator?? > >what sayest you all?? > >mark > > > ************************************************************************** * PaddleWise Paddling Mailing List Submissions: paddlewise_at_lists.intelenet.net Subscriptions: paddlewise-request_at_lists.intelenet.net Website: http://www.gasp-seakayak.net/paddlewise/ ************************************************************************** * ------ Message Header Follows ------ Received: from multitech.com by multitech.com (PostalUnion/SMTP(tm) v2.1.9c for Windows NT(tm)) id AA-1998Jul09.151354.1944.301439; Thu, 09 Jul 1998 15:13:54 -0500 Received: from ns1.intelenet.net ([204.182.160.31]) by gateway.multitech.com with ESMTP id <16132>; Thu, 9 Jul 1998 14:57:43 -0500 Received: (from majordom_at_localhost) by ns1.intelenet.net (8.8.7/8.8.7) id MAA07672 Thu, 9 Jul 1998 12:55:27 -0700 (PDT) Received: from ns.intelenet.net (intelenet.net [204.182.160.1]) by ns1.intelenet.net (8.8.7/8.8.7) with ESMTP id MAA07668 Thu, 9 Jul 1998 12:55:22 -0700 (PDT) Received: from mail.deltec.com (mail.deltec.com [199.5.243.7]) by ns.intelenet.net (8.8.8/8.8.8) with SMTP id MAA16339 for <paddlewise_at_lists.intelenet.net>; Thu, 9 Jul 1998 12:55:15 -0700 (PDT) Received: from nts21.deltec.com (unverified [172.27.10.16]) by nts25.deltec.com (EMWAC SMTPRS 0.83) with SMTP id <B0000002039_at_nts25.deltec.com>; Thu, 09 Jul 1998 14:55:38 -0500 Received: by nts21.deltec.com with SMTP (Microsoft Exchange Server Internet Mail Connector Version 4.0.994.63) id <01BDAB0A.AED26A90_at_nts21.deltec.com>; Thu, 9 Jul 1998 07:25:00 -0500 Message-ID: <c=US%a=_%p=Smiths.Industrie%l=NTS21-980709122459Z-77654_at_nts21.deltec.com> From: Larry Snow <larry.snow_at_deltec.com> To: "'paddlewise_at_lists.intelenet.net'" <paddlewise_at_lists.intelenet.net> Subject: RE: [Paddlewise] etiquette Date: Thu, 9 Jul 1998 07:24:59 -0500 X-Mailer: Microsoft Exchange Server Internet Mail Connector Version 4.0.994.63 MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; charset="us-ascii" Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit Sender: owner-paddlewise_at_lists.intelenet.net Precedence: list X-Listname: Paddlewise Mailing List X-Subscription-Info: paddlewise-request_at_lists.intelenet.net *************************************************************************** PaddleWise Paddling Mailing List Submissions: paddlewise_at_lists.intelenet.net Subscriptions: paddlewise-request_at_lists.intelenet.net Website: http://www.gasp-seakayak.net/paddlewise/ ***************************************************************************Received on Thu Jul 09 1998 - 13:44:02 PDT
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