Chris & Ellen Kohut wrote: The priority here should be reclaiming the girl's body for burial, ......... > I disagree. When my mother died (in hospital, not by drowning) it became very obvious to me that the body lying in the bed was no longer my mother, just an empty shell. My mother was gone. Where? I don't know, people have been debating that for ever. This girl is gone, the body in the river (or what is left of it by now) is not that girl. From the girl's perspective, what is the difference whether the empty shell decomposes at the bottom of the river or in an expensive cemetery plot. This whole campaign of the father to retrieve the body is a way to avoid the reality that the body in the river is no longer his daughter. I have three children, and if it was my child I would be devastated yes, but definitely unwilling to risk damaging the fragile ecology of the area or putting other lives at risk. Irene McGarvie: *************************************************************************** PaddleWise Paddling Mailing List Submissions: paddlewise_at_lists.intelenet.net Subscriptions: paddlewise-request_at_lists.intelenet.net Website: http://www.paddlewise.net/ ***************************************************************************Received on Fri Jul 16 1999 - 01:43:27 PDT
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