Re: [Paddlewise] Solo or Not?

From: <JSpinner_at_aol.com>
Date: Mon, 13 Sep 1999 22:06:54 EDT
In a message dated 9/13/99 8:02:58 PM, vaughan_at_jps.net writes:

<< 90-100% of the time.
Same reason.
Plus total lack of social skills>>
LOL

> Dave K wrote:
>
> > So, I am wondering:  how often do others paddle solo, and why?
>
> About 50%-60% of the time - Because I'm an introvert.
>
> Woody >>

95% with others. I am a bit conservative on the safety side and until I can 
roll reliably I think I'd like to be with others. I also enjoy someone being 
out there with me even if we don't say a word. It is like being in the same 
house with someone but not talking. There is a sense of companionship in the 
presence. 
    I've discovered I'm not particularly into big groups. Once in a while it 
is fine and fun to have an entire flock of paddlers but it means too many 
skill levels and you then have to paddle to the lowest common denominator. I 
get fidgety if they are just slow or even nervous if I think they can't make 
it. If they are faster I'm jealous and tempted to not think the kindest 
thoughts of my lovely 13'6" boat and that's not fair. It is like being mad at 
the dog for being a dog. I have to avoid unkindness because she is a 
wonderful short boat. She isn't pretending to be a long boat. I avoid stress 
in my life that way.

5% solo because Woody won't drive over 2 hours to meet me where I want to 
paddle.

Joan
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