Re: [Paddlewise] How and when to speak up

From: <Bhansen97_at_aol.com>
Date: Wed, 3 Nov 1999 08:40:11 EST
When happening upon someone who's clearly putting him/herself at risk, I like 
David Seng's advice when he writes-
<<  I usually opt for the "teach by asking questions" approach. >>
And Steve Cramer's advice on using the "I" word rather than "you".

This approach and the use of fliers/posters in the boathouse seem, to me, to 
have the best cance of reaching people.

OTOH - My luck at getting through to people using any technique at all has 
been remarkably poor, over a long lifetime of trying to get people to stop 
smoking, reduce alcohol intake, lose weight, exercise - even when they were 
actually suffering in terms of *pain* etc because they needed to make those 
lifestyle changes. Seems about half of them resented me, the other half 
patronized me, and pretty much everybody ignored me.

Not a good record at all. So what do I know? - Bill
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