Actually I have done this type of rescue many times. The problem is, just as she is about to express her gratitude I exit REM sleep. Mark Zen wrote: > anyone seen yesterday's column!! > > DEAR ABBY: While on a whitewater rafting trip, I was rescued from > drowning by a man in a kayak, and I can't stop thinking about him. > I am happily married, but am worried that I have "fallen in love" > with the man who saved my life. > > The man not only pulled me out of the water, he held my hand and > kept eye contact for 15 minutes while I was in shock. He took care > of me until I felt safe again. > > I sent him a four-page thank-you letter. Now I watch the mailbox, > waiting for a reply. What can I do to close this matter? Have I > fallen in love with "my hero"? -- GRATEFUL SURVIVOR > > DEAR GRATEFUL: You are confusing gratitude with love, and > ordinarily people do not respond to letters of thanks. > > Think of the experience this way: The man saved your life so you > and your husband can enjoy many more years of happily married life > together. > > *************************************************************************** > PaddleWise Paddling Mailing List - All postings copyright the author and not > to be reproduced outside PaddleWise without author's permission > Submissions: paddlewise_at_lists.intelenet.net > Subscriptions: paddlewise-request_at_lists.intelenet.net > Website: http://www.paddlewise.net/ > *************************************************************************** *************************************************************************** PaddleWise Paddling Mailing List - All postings copyright the author and not to be reproduced outside PaddleWise without author's permission Submissions: paddlewise_at_lists.intelenet.net Subscriptions: paddlewise-request_at_lists.intelenet.net Website: http://www.paddlewise.net/ ***************************************************************************Received on Tue Mar 07 2000 - 17:25:41 PST
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