[Paddlewise] Dictatorship of the Timid (was Slow Paddlers (was Group Dynamics (was Gender Defender (was KP))))

From: Matt Broze <mkayaks_at_oz.net>
Date: Fri, 14 Jul 2000 00:20:22 -0700
I don't think I can do that, unless, of course, Doug tows me ;-)

This "weakest member decides" approach is fine on land. The timid or nervous
can just refuse to paddle and stay put. The group can then either split or
wait depending on the situation and available transportation, etc. Although,
a slower paddler should never be left behind, once on the water they should
not be in charge either. On the water this "weakest member decides" approach
runs into serious trouble unless the weakest member also happens to be the
most experienced and prudent. Rarely the case. Often the prudent thing to do
is to somehow make the slowest paddler speed up. The group doesn't need to
spend any longer at risk than necessary if the weather, sea conditions or
daylight are deteriorating. Arguing about what to do will just delay things
further when the group should have been on their way already. There is a
reason why ships aren't run democratically (much less by the new cabin boy).
If you have the time and are in a safe location and are unhurried teaching
the slower paddler some better more efficient paddling techniques might help
(especially later in a longer trip). Usually there is no time to do that
when danger is threatening. What if the timid paddler becomes frightened and
starts to freeze up. Should they then order the group to sit out there with
them in the face of the approaching gale and tide change while the
frightened paddler rests up and tries to get their heart rate down. No,
somebody with experience has to step in and say "Here's the reality. We can
all stay here with Bruce and buck him up and try to encourage him (or plead
with him to let us all paddle again) or we can have Bull here tow him and if
anyone can't keep up with Bull and Bruce I'm gonna tow them". "But I don't
want to be towed" says Dan, "I can get there on my own just not as fast as
you guys". At this point what is sorely needed is a previously agreed upon
leader whose word is law. "No Dave, that puts the whole group at risk and we
are not going to let you fall behind, whoever can't keep up will be towed to
increase the groups speed whether they like it or not".  "Even though Bruce
is being towed he will still need to be paddling as fast as he can go. He
can't lessen his effort, the goal is to increase the groups overall speed in
making it to safety and everyone needs to do their part to reach that goal
to the very best of their abilities. Let's get going."  If Dave refuses a
tow clip into his bow and tow him anyway. If he gets his back up and starts
back paddling or refuses to paddle at all to help (even though he is able)
the option is then open to cut him loose and leave him on his own (and let
him die, if that's what happens to him, with a clear conscience). Keel
hauling would waste too much time and a kayak doesn't have a brig.

Matt Broze
http://www.marinerkayaks.com



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