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From: Michael Edelman <mje_at_spamcop.net>
subject: [Paddlewise] Sensitivity, etc.
Date: Tue, 26 Sep 2000 08:29:21 -0400
Reading the responses to Ralph's original post I see a lot of mutual
misunderstanding and not a whole lot of charitible readings. What Ralph
was saying is that there exist a lot of people who are very much
isolated from the watersports community, whether for reasons of
geography, community, perceived social circle or what have you. Ralph is
just talking about reaching out to these people and letting them know
that there are no social barriers to joining us.

I'm sure a lot of people look out on the crowds of kayakers on the
Hudson and feel the way I do looking at a neighborhood pickup basketball
game. They're not like me; I don't know if I'd be welcome there. Ralph
is just talking about reaching out and saying come on, you're all
welcome.

-- mike
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From: <LedJube_at_aol.com>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Sensitivity, etc.
Date: Tue, 26 Sep 2000 10:54:25 EDT
<< I'm sure a lot of people look out on the crowds of kayakers on the Hudson 
and feel the way I do looking at a neighborhood pickup basketball game. 
They're not like me; I don't know if I'd be welcome there. Ralph is just 
talking about reaching out and saying come on, you're all
welcome.

-- mike >>

    Well said.  At the same time I can understand some peoples desire to be 
spared the well-meant intentions of the majority race. Much damage has been 
done in the name of virtue by the majority population. Witness the suffering 
of indigenous peoples in America (North and South), Australia, South Africa 
etc.

After a recent paddle, I walked over to a minority couple that seemed 
fascinated with our foolishness (post trip rolling practice). They were full 
of questions, very articulate and a little surprised at the lack of elitism 
they had somehow associated with the sport. We here, all share a great 
passion for kayaking, a passion for me that grows in the sharing. 

    I do not understand the reasoning behind all the demographics of 
paddling. Nor do I care. I do not feel guilty about the sins of someone 
else's forefathers. I love to paddle and I love to share my love of paddling 
with other people. If some of those people happen to have a different ethnic 
background then my own, I'm not sure that has such great meaning. But I will 
continue to share my love of the sport with anyone that shows interest.

Jed (in nonracially diverse New Hampshire)

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From: SRI <sailboatrestorations_at_worldnet.att.net>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Sensitivity, etc.
Date: Tue, 26 Sep 2000 11:57:30 -0000
> Ralph
>is just talking about reaching out and saying come on, you're all
>welcome.


Well, yes.  I think (hope) we all agree -- race, gender, religion, sexual
orientation, hair color (or absence of hair, thank you), and shoe size are
all irrelevant, and we're all one on the water.

But there was also this incipient "debate" about the underlying causes etc.
Endless debates about why certain groups of people don't seem to appear in
certain sports. . . .  well, they are a waste of time, IMO.  Every so often
the issue comes up in sailing circles, as well, and there is always a huge
fight that develops.  The fight is never over the question of whether
minorities *should* be welcome, or included, or encouraged in the sport.
The fight is always over how it came to be that they don't seem to *be* in
the sport.  There are just too many social theories, too many truths, too
many ugly facts, too much speculation. . . it's just too big an issue to
think that we can tackle it without disagreement, even emotional
disagreement. . . which is not worth it, given what we can accomplish by
such "debate" (very little).  And it really doesn't much matter.  It's not
up to us to come up with the final correct analysis of "the race issue" in
the US.  It's simply up to us to welcome all comers into the sport.  IMO,
that should be about all we can hope to do.  My suggestion is to drop this
issue now, not because it's "taboo", but because it's just likely to lead to
hurt feelings and disagreement where there need not be any.

Mark


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