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From: Mark Paxton <paxtonm_at_hotmail.com>
subject: [Paddlewise] smugness
Date: Tue, 28 Nov 2000 13:52:53 -0800
KCD's post said what I'd originally decided not to.  The subtle but 
pervasive message of smug superiority among a few "insiders" is what drove 
me screaming from yacht racing years ago.

Among the "sailors," superiority was often denoted by who had the most money 
to spend on new sails and go-fast goodies, not who had the most skill.  At 
least kayaking hasn't entered that realm yet.

I'm not much of a paddler -- wasn't much of a sailor either, by the 
standards of the racers.  But I pride myself on being able to practice both 
endeavors safely and independently, on my own terms.  By the same token, I'm 
not much of a driver, even though it's been an eternity since I scratched a 
fender or drew a moving violation, because I don't showcase my skills 
competitively.  Not much of a bicyclist, either, although I can still drag 
my middle-aged body more than 100 miles a day.

Being "good" at those things isn't important to me.  Being a "good" teacher, 
friend, and person is.  I imagine at least some of those people who found 
themselves in a bit over their heads (literally) might progress more quickly 
in the sport with some instruction.  I still remember the first time 
somebody pointed out to me that I needed to brace INTO a wave 
(counterintuitively, for me) to ride onto a beach safely.  The tip was 
delivered by an expert kayaker and instructor,without a trace of a smirk or 
arched eyebrow.

Mark


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