Re: [Paddlewise] Group Dynamics

From: PeterO <rebyl_kayak_at_iprimus.com.au>
Date: Sat, 6 Apr 2002 18:23:18 +1000
Kirby wrote: -
>My question to everyone is. Should I have continued
>and caught up to the group?

G'Day,

In a properly organised and functioning group you would have a serious
responsibility to tell the group leader, or sweep that you were leaving. But
the group left you behind and trying to overcome the groups failure to
function properly could have jeopardised you! So, as others observed your
action seems very sensible.

I learn't the hard way to always tell the group leader if I had to leave. On
that occasion Dennis Maina, who has just joined the list, got me out of
serious strife - thanks again Dennis!

Other lessons I learn't on that occasion were: always do a thorough trip
plan yourself the night before, no matter how competent the group is and
even if you are not leading the trip. And quietly assess your partners. I've
never felt embarassed about occasionally backing out of a trip at the last
minute, usually because I was not up to it on the day, but sometimes because
the trip looked inappropriately organised.

All the best, PeterO.




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