[My computer is away for a doctor visit, so I'm sending this via web mail on a borrowed laptop. I hope the formatting won't be too awful.] Dave wrote: > My point is that there is more to staying safe than the objective stuff; > you have to listen carefully to that subtle inner voice in yourself (and > draw it out of others), for it will sometimes tell you to back off when the > "science" of piloting and navigation says everything is OK. You make a good and important point. For someone like myself, who paddles solo most of the time (some would say that's always a bad idea, considering where I'm willing to paddle without partners), listening to my inner voice(s) can present a real challenge at times; especially if making any sense of the "inner conversation" is the ultimate objective! ;-) There are times when a "go/no go" decision is easy (objectively speaking, anyway), and then there are times when my desire/willingness to challenge myself has to be considered in the context of my current "state of mind", which can have a "mind of its own", if you know what I mean. I can look back and say that most of the time, I've been successful in my judgments, but there have been those rare moments when I would have to admit that I've had perhaps a bit of dumb luck on my side as well. Even in those moments, I can learn something about the sheer force of will, and I'm glad that the mind and heart can sometimes help to compensate for questionable judgment when needed. I *never* go out with the intention of "tempting fate" or "conquering the elements" (even I'm not that stupid...I hope), but I do enjoy a challenge at times as well. Good decision making can be a delicate balance, and one that I don't mind dealing with; yet again, there will always be someone who thinks that solo paddling--especially on coastal waters--is never a good idea to begin with. Thanks again for making such an important and worthwhile point. -- Melissa *************************************************************************** PaddleWise Paddling Mailing List - Any opinions or suggestions expressed here are solely those of the writer(s). You must assume the entire responsibility for reliance upon them. All postings copyright the author. Submissions: PaddleWise_at_PaddleWise.net Subscriptions: PaddleWise-request_at_PaddleWise.net Website: http://www.paddlewise.net/ ***************************************************************************Received on Sat Nov 10 2007 - 13:37:45 PST
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