Re: [Paddlewise] Gender Defender (was KP)

From: Sailboat Restorations, Inc. <sailboatrestorations_at_worldnet.att.net>
Date: Thu, 13 Jul 2000 12:55:54 -0400
Richard Kemmer wrote:

[snip]
> Like Doug, I ruminated on the La Nina expedition article -- especially the
> common-sense policy of deferring to the least competent or least
courageous
> (least foolhardy?) paddler.  That should be the first commandment for
every
> sea kayaker paddling in a group.
[snip]

Nice post, Rick.  I was moved by your comments about the Shumans.  I haven't
had time to read the La Nina article yet, but the idea of being guided by
the "weakest" member of the group strikes me as so fundamentally right, I
very much like your comment that is should be the basis for all paddling
groups.  I've felt hampered by slower paddlers and wanted to move on (not
that I'm a great paddler, mind you!).  I'm going to strive to avoid that
impulse.  It should be an incentive to two things, perhaps: (1) choose your
paddling partners according to the type of paddling you want to do, and if
it turns out that you made a mistake (*you* made the mistake), adjust your
expectations to the paddlers you are with (love the one you're with <g>);
and (2) if there are people in your group who can't keep up, want to go
back, etc. -- remember: there is a reason to be out there, and it is not
necessarily always to be *paddling* -- it's to enjoy the spot on the planet
that you happen to occupy at that moment: slow down and smell the roses.
Thanks for a nice post.  I enjoyed it.
Mark


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