Re: [Paddlewise] Get-togethers (was An Apology)

From: Nick Schade <schade_at_guillemot-kayaks.com>
Date: Fri, 27 Apr 2001 16:27:07 -0400
At 3:43 PM -0400 4/27/01, ralph diaz wrote:
>I firmly believe in tailoring open trips to the paddling level that shows
>up, to a degree.  Say you have a 15 mile trip planned but it isn't involving
>some specific destination critical to the trip's nature.  If people show who
>can only do 10 miles, why not adjust to that level?  You can always paddle
>the 15 miles or more some other day.  Mixed groups of skilled and
>less-skilled paddlers do learn from each other.  Obviously, if the person
>shows up clueless without proper gear and can't even get into his boat, then
>you can't include him.
>


I guess it depends on how you were planning from the start. If you 
are "leading" a trip under the umbrella of the organization, it is 
not too much to expect that you tailor it to who shows up. If you are 
just using the organization to let people know you will be going to a 
certain place at a certain time then I don't see any reason to change 
your plans just because someone who can't do it decides to show up. 
Maybe this time is the "other time" and you won't have another chance 
until next year and you really want to go the 15 miles not 10. Life 
is too short to accommodate to everyone.

All trips I go on are just a long detour back to the car. I don't get 
in my kayak because I need to get somewhere. I do it because I want 
to go for a fun paddle. My plans tend to be fluid and I really don't 
mind changing them. Chances are if I hook up with someone on my 
paddle I will stick with them even if they want to turn back before I 
do. But if I tell someone I am going to paddle 15 miles before they 
even leave their house and they come and are only able to do 10 
miles, that is their responsibility. If it wasn't advertised as a 
trip they can do, it isn't incumbent on the planner to change his 
trip to suit someone else's ability.

I am not excusing people who are snotty and don't want to mingle with 
the hoi polloi. Chances are I don't want much to do with them either. 
But I think there is a place for "leaderless" trips where "I'm going 
here and doing this. Anyone who wants to do the same show up at..." 
without being responsible for the welfare of everyone who turns up. 
There is also a place for "lead" trips where someone is in charge and 
makes decisions for the group. If someone says the trip is the first 
type he shouldn't be expected to make it the second.

Nick
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Nick Schade
Guillemot Kayaks
824 Thompson St
Glastonbury, CT 06033
(860) 659-8847

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