Re: [Paddlewise] Group Dynamics - Feedback....

From: Niels Blaauw <niels.blaauw_at_wanadoo.nl>
Date: Fri, 05 Apr 2002 22:17:30 -0800
I think Kirby didn't really made a decision to part from the group: The
group parted from him. If I were in his shoes (boat) I would NOT have
tried to catch up. I would have been steaming with anger. I would have
told them on the first chance that I would NEVER paddle with them again.

Groups are supposed to be safer then solo paddling. A group like this is
a danger. Slower paddlers will fall back, force themselves to keep up,
spending their strength in the wrong way, not having any left when they
need it in an emergency. The group will loose members with nobody
knowing where they are. The search for them might endanger the rest of
the group. There is no check on the abilities of paddlers, so it is easy
to enter conditions they can't handle. A group like this is asking for
disaster. Kirby: Let them enter the disaster without you. Darwin will
take care of them.

On advice of this list I bought the book by John Lull: Sea kayakking
safety and rescue, that has a very clear and manageable view on group
dynamics. Read it, and use it! A group can be safe, when everybody has a
clear understanding of the functioning of the group. Otherwise, the
"safety by numbers" may feel secure, but actually is as secure as a PFD
made of concrete.

I am almost getting angry in Kirby's place.

Niels.

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