RE: [Paddlewise] A Southern California Tragedy

From: Steve Holtzman <sh_at_actglobal.net>
Date: Thu, 15 Mar 2007 18:08:11 -0700
Doug Lloyd said:


> She exasperatedly 
> said to me, please Doug, our family has had enough of the 
> flesh eating diseases, heart procedures, fibrillation 
> episodes, open heart surgery marathons, and her own fights 
> with cancer. She interestingly ended her list with "and close 
> calls at sea and Coast Guard rescues."  Gulp!

When I returned from the hospital last Sunday after hearing the doctor
pronounce my friend dead, my wife asked me to promise never to paddle solo
again. We got into a heated discussion about it when she finally said to me.
"If you care at all about me, you won't paddle alone---and if you don't, I'm
going to take a chain saw to all of your boats.

T-his afternoon immediately after the funeral was over and we had all taken
turns putting dirt on top of the coffin, she said to me, that I know how she
feels but she will not hold me to my promise and that I could paddle when
and where I want.

I think I'll be paddling with at least one friend from now on.

Steve Holtzman
Southern California
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