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From: Melissa Reese <melissa_at_bonnyweeboaty.net>
subject: [Paddlewise] Sad day for a fellow boat builder
Date: Wed, 12 Dec 2007 18:17:45 -0800
Hi,

I just got home from running some errands, and there was a phone
message waiting for me. Two dear friends of mine (husband and wife,
both in their '70s, living on social security and a small retirement
pension), lost their home to a fire today. They weren't home at the
time, so at least they're okay, and now they're staying in a local
hotel for the moment.

Though they owned their home (fully paid for), they didn't have much
in the way of material things--except for the several small cedar
strip boats my friend had built (a couple canoes, three kayaks, a
rowing shell, and a beautiful Cosine Wherry). All lost to the fire. He
also lost his lifelong collection of woodworking tools.

Building/fixing small wooden boats is his passion, and it's how he has
kept himself young; both in the building and the paddling/rowing of
his boats. His large garage was a beautiful woodworking shop, where he
could even cut and shape his own cedar strips, etc.

I haven't been able to speak with him yet (just missed him at the
hotel he's staying at), so I don't know what their home insurance
situation is. All I know is that I want to help in any way I can to
get them back on their feet. Since simplifying my own life several
years ago, I don't have much to give either, but I'll do whatever I
can. I know that even if he can build another house (I sure hope he
has decent insurance!), he'll go absolutely nuts if he can't get back
to his boat building as well, as this really was his dream of
retirement that he was living so happily until this sad moment.

I'm trying to think of a way that I can set up a website through which
woodworking tools could be donated, but I have no experience with
either website building or donation gathering of this sort. If anyone
here has ideas that I might be able to work with, please do let me
know; either here on the list or via private email.

Thanks!

-- 
Melissa
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From: Darryl <Darryl.Johnson_at_sympatico.ca>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Sad day for a fellow boat builder
Date: Wed, 12 Dec 2007 22:24:09 -0500
> Hi,
> 
> I just got home from running some errands, and there was a phone
> message waiting for me. Two dear friends of mine (husband and wife,
> both in their '70s, living on social security and a small retirement
> pension), lost their home to a fire today. They weren't home at the
> time, so at least they're okay, and now they're staying in a local
> hotel for the moment.
> 
<snip>

> I'm trying to think of a way that I can set up a website through which
> woodworking tools could be donated, but I have no experience with
> either website building or donation gathering of this sort. If anyone
> here has ideas that I might be able to work with, please do let me
> know; either here on the list or via private email.
> 
> Thanks!
> 
> -- 
> Melissa

The Acoustic guitar newsgroup regulars recently did a collection of 
bits and pieces of guitar related stuff for some people in New 
Orleans that had lost their equipment (and therefore their 
livelihood) during katrina. The way they did it was to simple have 
one member act as the coordinator and people who could give contact 
him. He did the original legwork to see what would be most needed, 
and then he simply took what he could from the people who responded.

The process was quite successful and three or four different 
musicians were ultimately given the tools to get back to work. I 
don't believe that it was extraordinarily stessfull for the guy doing 
the coordinating, and certainly the glow he got from the thankful 
recipients more than compensated him for his work.

Why don't you start by finding out about the insurance, and also 
whether or not your friend even wants to start over. (Hard to believe 
he wouldn't, but still... Maybe he'll want to get back to it, but 
after a time to recover from the emotional loss.)

If there is stuff that isn't covered, maybe you could post a list and 
we could see about filling it.

All the best,
-- 
  Darryl
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From: Melissa Reese <melissa_at_bonnyweeboaty.net>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Sad day for a fellow boat builder
Date: Thu, 13 Dec 2007 12:22:34 -0800
Hi Darryl,

Thanks!  I appreciate the ideas you've offered, and will be
considering all the many good ideas people have been sending me.

Wednesday, December 12, 2007, 7:24:09 PM, you wrote:

> Why don't you start by finding out about the insurance, and also
> whether or not your friend even wants to start over. (Hard to
> believe he wouldn't, but still... Maybe he'll want to get back to
> it, but after a time to recover from the emotional loss.)

I'm about to leave the house to see them in a few minutes, so I'll
know more soon. I know that I'll be busy helping them with more
immediate needs for the next several days, and I've got to think about
how best to implement this tool drive, so that will take a bit of time
as well.

I know that my friend will want to get back to his boat building, as
even last night when I finally got in touch with them he mentioned his
boats (never heard this cheerful man's voice sound so sad and subdued;
though it's certainly understandable). These people have the most
wonderful optimistic outlook; even at this devastating moment. In
spite of their great loss--emotionally even more than materially--I'm
encouraged, though not at all surprised, by the strength of their
character, and their faith that "things will work out". These humble
and generous people are the kinds of heroes I really admire.

> If there is stuff that isn't covered, maybe you could post a list
> and we could see about filling it.

Thanks.  As mentioned above, I'll be busy for a while helping with
their more immediate needs, but as soon as possible, I will be dealing
with this tool drive idea; starting with my own tools and other types
of things they may find useful right now.  Though there will still be
sadness for their loss, I want their Christmas to be one filled with
hope and as much genuine joy as possible.  The helpful responses
I've already received from so many paddlers/builders has shown me that
this is possible, and I really appreciate all of your ideas.

Thanks again...to everyone!

-- 
Melissa
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From: Melissa Reese <melissa_at_bonnyweeboaty.net>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Sad day for a fellow boat builder
Date: Thu, 13 Dec 2007 16:01:03 -0800
Hi everyone,

I have an update...with some good news.

Wednesday, December 12, 2007, 6:17:45 PM, I wrote:

> I'm trying to think of a way that I can set up a website through
> which woodworking tools could be donated, but I have no experience
> with either website building or donation gathering of this sort. If
> anyone here has ideas that I might be able to work with, please do
> let me know; either here on the list or via private email.

I just spent a few hours with my friends, and there is some good news
to report. First, the damage, while still extensive and devastating,
wasn't quite as total as it was first portrayed to me by someone else
I spoke with yesterday after I heard the news (I was told that
*absolutely everything* was burned to the ground). While there was
damage in the woodworking shop, and to some of the boats and tools,
the worst of the damage was to the rest of the house (lost many things
with great personal significance, but they were able to salvage a few
little things as well).

Until I know more about just what might really be needed in the shop,
I'm calling off the "tool drive" project for the moment. I know that a
lot of his boat building wood stock was burned up, as he stored much
of it in an area that was burned to a crisp. If it turns out that
there's still a need for some help, I'll certainly be taking all your
helpful suggestions into consideration.

Now, for the even better news...

My friends were actually surprised at just how good their insurance
coverage was! We'll continue some salvage efforts over the next
several days, but on Monday, contractors will be at the site to start
the demolition and reconstruction of the house. In the meanwhile, it
seems that the insurance is also paying for finding them a house to
stay in while their own is being rebuilt. Hopefully, they'll be out of
the hotel room in just a few days.

After I post this message to the couple other places I posted the
original message, I'm off to do some shopping for them (all they have
left of their clothing is what they were wearing while they were away
from home during the fire).

While it's still a devastating loss for them, I'm so glad that first
reports of the damage were at least somewhat exaggerated.

Thanks again to everyone who offered helpful ideas, good wishes for my
friends, and offers of your own tools and supplies...both here on and
through private email!

As I learn more, I'll post another update.

-- 
Melissa
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From: Darryl <Darryl.Johnson_at_sympatico.ca>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Sad day for a fellow boat builder
Date: Thu, 13 Dec 2007 22:39:12 -0500
> Hi everyone,
> 
> I have an update...with some good news.
> 
<snip>

Glad to hear that things -- while still bad for your friends -- are 
better than you (and they) thought.

Good vibes coming at them from this corner of the world...

-- 
  Darryl
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From: Tord Eriksson <tord_at_tord.nu>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Sad day for a fellow boat builder
Date: Wed, 19 Dec 2007 11:44:27 +0100
On Wednesday 19 December 2007 00:55, Melissa Reese wrote:
> Hi Tord,
>
> Tuesday, December 18, 2007, 3:06:26 PM, you wrote:
> > Wish we were closer, so we could give them some spare tools!
> >
> > Just now extremely low on cash as well - sorry!
>
> Thank you for your concern, and I can certainly appreciate your
> circumstances.  There is some good news though (I posted an update to
> the PW list a couple days ago about this).  Just quickly though...

Hi Melissa,

I get the digest, usually once a week, but this is great news! 

My parents lost their summer cottage through fire (lightning struck the 
phone lines - the power was off), and my dad never recovered fully, and 
died prematurely. He was 51 when the house caught fire ...

We didn't own the house, we just had a 49 year lease, and while this
blockhouse-like building had been damaged severely, it was very much 
repairable (some blasting and repairing the holes in the roof and floors
and new cupboards in the kitchen would have been enough to make it OK), 
but the owners wanted to destroy the remains and build a modern house
instead. It was generally the interior that was smoke damaged, and all
dad's documentation of the year in the countryside was severely damaged,
or plain destroyed. Being a professional botanist, and an avid 
ornithologist, those documentations would have been something for
researchers to bite into later. He planted about 2,500 different spieces in 
the garden - all carefully reigstered with latin names, et cetera (most 
eaten by the rodents, deer and hares). 

When my father found the abandoned house in 1958 it had a small maple 
behind the kitchen entrance (still there, but now gigantic - checked a few 
months ago - first revisit in a few decades) and in that tree 'our own' 
black bird spent most of his time when he was in a singing mode. Mr Black 
Bird loved to imitate other birds - I think my dad had registered that it 
did 84 other spieces of birds, plus some other animals, and sounds, like a 
steam train's whistle. My dad wondered where this little bird had met up 
with all these spieces, many totally unknown in our part of the world - 
where did our little friend  go during the winter?!

Today it would be possible to attach a little transponder and follow it all
the way south, but it wasn't possible then!

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year, by the way,
to you and your friends!

Tord & Ann-Christine,
Sweden
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