Re: [Paddlewise] Danish dragon boat, some answers

From: <Pamvetdr_at_aol.com>
Date: Fri, 25 Feb 2011 00:11:37 -0500 (EST)
In a message dated 2/24/2011 9:11:46 A.M. Pacific Standard Time,  
nick_at_guillemot-kayaks.com writes:

I  don't see much point in finding ways to keep other people from being 
stupid. I  have enough trouble keeping myself from being stupid.

Does anyone have  any advice on how to overcome our own  weaknesses?

Nick
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I try to keep in mind a quote publicized by NRS _www.nrsweb.com_ 
(http://www.nrsweb.com)     Click on  Boating 
resources, click on Safety, click on Coming back.
   The quote is "Going out is optional, coming back is  mandatory".  
   The question is, are you determined to come back, willing  to work to be 
sure you will come back, and willing to not go out if you are not  sure you 
will come back?
     If you can't answer yes to these questions, you  are not determined to 
come back. You are trusting the weather rather  than checking it, you are 
trusting your boat though you haven't had it out for  months, you are 
trusting your drysuit gaskets even if they are torn. You are  trusting your 
companions even though you have never paddled with them  before. You are trusting 
people who were up late last night drinking a lot  of beer. 
    In other words, you are trusting other people to be  smarter than you 
are. That's a sad situation. (I was going to say the exception  is with a 
qualified instructor, but these youngsters had a qualified instructor-  though 
perhaps not qualified in these exact circumstances). 
 
I have certainly failed to observe the quote. Someone on this list who  
shall remain nameless has twice put me in a leaky boat and/or one with  
insufficient floatation and no bulkheads, and I let him do it. I hope I  have 
learned better now. No crisis either time but at least once, some of that  was 
luck.
 
     So, I have that quote on my kayak instructor  business card, and it 
has, on occasion, gotten some laughs. Too bad  for them. If I have it in front 
of me like that, I can always just say no.  It isn't fun, but I don't have 
to add to others mistakes. It's when I fail to  think that I suffer the 
consequences.
 
       I'm not sure this is what you have in  mind. However, if you are 
going to walk the walk and talk the talk, it's a  starting point.
                      Pam in Washington State
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