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From: 735769 <735769_at_ican.net>
subject: [Paddlewise] Grok Duel
Date: Fri, 8 Oct 1999 08:05:05 -0400
This rudder/no rudder business just goes on and on and I would like to
propose something- a "Grok Duel" -  that might help everyone concerned. It
comes from Edward MacNeal, a regular contributor to ETC: The Journal of the
International Society for General Semantics.

The name comes from Robert Heinlein's "Stranger in a Strange Land" and means
to "to understand so thoroughly that the observer becomes a part of the
process being observed ....etc."

MacNeal felt that most arguments and misunderstandings stemmed from the
parties not understanding each other's positions. He developed the "Grok
Duel" as an aid in understanding.

These rules govern  Grok Dueling;

1. Each party takes turns trying to state the other's position to the
satisfaction of the other party. Parties may only use positive statements
supporting an argument.

2. An unsatisfied party must state at least one particular in which the
statement fails.

3. The first party to make a satisfactory statement wins. If the second
party then replies with a satisfactory statement, the second party also
wins.

The opposing sides of this discussion can pick someone to represent them and
send him or her their arguments supporting the opposing position, They, in
turn, will post the arguments on paddlewise (this will cut down on list
traffic).  No one else will post to the list on the topic.  Jackie will have
to use one of her subtle chastisements to stop rogue posters.

We could use "Pros and Cons of Rudders and Moveable Skegs  VS No Rudder or
Moveable Skeg  on Sea Kayaks" as a topic. Because this will include a lot of
people maybe the first post should include a list of those on each side.
When over, Jackie could post the lists on the Paddlewise web site explaining
how we created it.

I have wanted to test this technique of MacNeal's on the Internet  for some
time as I believe that the Internet actually inhibits understanding because
of its "sound bite nature" and a tendency towards wanting to "win" arguments
or make "points".

For those interested the article describing Grok Dueling appears in ETC:
Volume Fifty-Six Number Two, Summer 1999.

If this experiment works I will write to Mr.. MacNeal who may even use
Paddlewise as an example of improved understanding in a future article. If
we agree to use this technique we should set a start date for I may ask
MacNeal to monitor the discussion if he has E-Mail or thinks it worthwhile.

Cheers,
John Winters
Redwing Designs
Web site address, http://home.ican.net/~735769



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From: Joan Spinner <JSpinner_at_agu.org>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Grok Duel
Date: Fri, 08 Oct 1999 09:14:00 -0400
    Very interesting idea. Just thinking about this idea I have a couple of
thoughts.
    My concern with this particular topic is that there are so many different
points of view. It isn't a clear cut rudder/no rudder argument. I have not heard
my own position approached very much here. Being a Quaker, I'm very comfortable
with having my point of view enunciated by someone else as long as the idea gets
out there. I'm wondering why I am not hearing it. Maybe my newbie point of view
is unrealistic.
    I'm learning a lot from the debate and it is making we rethink my opinions
about rudders. My lack of experience is a filter through which I hear and judge.
I have to recall how little I know experientially. I have enjoyed the traffic
and the ideas. I don't mind this process.
    I'd guess I'm not the only one out here who is observing without joining
either camp. In fact I'd guess that a lot of us are sometimes here an sometimes
there. Which camp would I go to if I wanted to join and then who would be the
arbiter of when something was correctly enunciated?
    I like the idea. I'd love to see it in action. Even if it fails to work
observation of the process would be instructional.

Joan

735769 wrote:

> This rudder/no rudder business just goes on and on and I would like to
> propose something- a "Grok Duel" -  that might help everyone concerned. It
> comes from Edward MacNeal, a regular contributor to ETC: The Journal of the
> International Society for General Semantics.
>
> The name comes from Robert Heinlein's "Stranger in a Strange Land" and means
> to "to understand so thoroughly that the observer becomes a part of the
> process being observed ....etc."
>
> MacNeal felt that most arguments and misunderstandings stemmed from the
> parties not understanding each other's positions. He developed the "Grok
> Duel" as an aid in understanding.
>
> These rules govern  Grok Dueling;
>
> 1. Each party takes turns trying to state the other's position to the
> satisfaction of the other party. Parties may only use positive statements
> supporting an argument.
>
> 2. An unsatisfied party must state at least one particular in which the
> statement fails.
>
> 3. The first party to make a satisfactory statement wins. If the second
> party then replies with a satisfactory statement, the second party also
> wins.
>
> The opposing sides of this discussion can pick someone to represent them and
> send him or her their arguments supporting the opposing position, They, in
> turn, will post the arguments on paddlewise (this will cut down on list
> traffic).  No one else will post to the list on the topic.  Jackie will have
> to use one of her subtle chastisements to stop rogue posters.
>
> We could use "Pros and Cons of Rudders and Moveable Skegs  VS No Rudder or
> Moveable Skeg  on Sea Kayaks" as a topic. Because this will include a lot of
> people maybe the first post should include a list of those on each side.
> When over, Jackie could post the lists on the Paddlewise web site explaining
> how we created it.
>
> I have wanted to test this technique of MacNeal's on the Internet  for some
> time as I believe that the Internet actually inhibits understanding because
> of its "sound bite nature" and a tendency towards wanting to "win" arguments
> or make "points".
>
> For those interested the article describing Grok Dueling appears in ETC:
> Volume Fifty-Six Number Two, Summer 1999.
>
> If this experiment works I will write to Mr.. MacNeal who may even use
> Paddlewise as an example of improved understanding in a future article. If
> we agree to use this technique we should set a start date for I may ask
> MacNeal to monitor the discussion if he has E-Mail or thinks it worthwhile.
>
> Cheers,
> John Winters
> Redwing Designs
> Web site address, http://home.ican.net/~735769
>
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From: <KiAyker_at_aol.com>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Grok Duel
Date: Fri, 8 Oct 1999 09:31:33 EDT
In a message dated 10/8/99 5:29:30 AM Pacific Daylight Time, 735769_at_ican.net 
writes:

<< This rudder/no rudder business just goes on and on and I would like to
 propose something- a "Grok Duel"  >>

   First I think we need to debate the virtues of this "Grok Duel" for a 
number of months and beat it into the ground until nobody cares anymore :-)

Scott
So.Cal.
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From: James Lofton <n5yyx_at_etsc.net>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Grok Duel
Date: Fri, 08 Oct 1999 07:21:00 -0700
> SNIP<
> MacNeal felt that most arguments and misunderstandings stemmed from the
> parties not understanding each other's positions. He developed the "Grok
> Duel" as an aid in understanding.
> 
> These rules govern  Grok Dueling;
> 
> 1. Each party takes turns trying to state the other's position to the
> satisfaction of the other party. Parties may only use positive statements
> supporting an argument.
>MAJOR SNIP<
>

Might work here?, but it really sounds to me like the ideal of someone on 
a jap bike, wanting to hang out at a biker bar, who all ride harleys.
"it's not that we won't like you as a person, it's just you ain't gon'a 
drink with us!" :-)

Some people just don't get it, and I believe this rudder thing is one of 
them.

James, uses a rudder, but only if I want to..(all I need is air and a 
smile from my lady)

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From: Richard Culpeper <culpeper_at_tbaytel.net>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Grok Duel
Date: Fri, 08 Oct 1999 11:32:38 -0400
Juliette, the DADA Oracle, can give some terrific advice as to whether or not
you should use a rudder.  Just type in your own paddling requirements.  You can
track her down at:

http://www.smalltime.com/nowhere/dada/fortune.html

Cheers,
Richard Culpeper

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From: 735769 <735769_at_ican.net>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Grok Duel
Date: Sat, 9 Oct 1999 11:36:21 -0400
Richard wrote;



>Juliette, the DADA Oracle, can give some terrific advice as to whether or
not
>you should use a rudder.  Just type in your own paddling requirements.  You
can
>track her down at:
>
>http://www.smalltime.com/nowhere/dada/fortune.html
>

Absolutely. Only good advice I have gotten off the net.

Cheers,
John Winters
Redwing Designs
Web site address, http://home.ican.net/~735769

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