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From: Doug Lloyd <dlloyd_at_telus.net>
subject: [Paddlewise] Gender Defender (was KP)
Date: Wed, 12 Jul 2000 23:06:16 -0700
Melissa said:

>>Add my apologies to Kasia to this list.  And Jackie, I agree with you
- -more women [being naturally the superior paddling gender], should
speak often and freely here (eek! <Melissa dons her stylishly cut,
nicely colored flame-proof wetsuit> ;-)>>

Melissa touches on a subject that I've been doing a lot of thinking
about lately: The differences (or lack of differences) between male and
female paddlers. I realize Melissa's comment above about female
superiority is in jest (okay, maybe it isn't :-)), but it does provide a
springboard for me to dive into "the battle of the sexes" issue, as it
pertains to paddling.

My beef is that I don't think it makes a whole lot of difference what
sex you are in terms of one's enjoyment and practice of kayaking. I get
damn tired on trips from men complain about some gal who they say is a
"bit_at_#", and on the very next day, the guy is acting like a jerk - or
worse. It seems obvious to me that we all have our personality problems
regardless of gender, and our bad days and poor judgment (often out of
character as seen on PW recently)..

The next thing that gets my goat (or is that a doe?), is the barrage of
criticism men always seem to be getting, because women think that men's
paddling behavior is macho. Yes, I've seen some of these guys doing
their best to make the male species look bad on a mixed trip, but more
often than not, it is individual personality problems again. Men who
leave their gal-pals behind in rough weather, men who challenge nature,
performing awesome paddling feats and then lording it over women folk,
are all cads - who just happen to be men.

I guess if I can make any observation from experience over the years, is
that yes, there is more of a tendency toward certain behavior patterns,
and more of a predisposition toward certain characteristics from certain
sexes, but there will always be a sense in which you will find a
definite, even if small, percentage of the opposite sex you are
criticizing -- doing the same thing or committing the same actions.
There is way too much generalization in gender paddling politics.

I've seen women on trips eyeing up the guys, looking real close at their
cute butts, forming little jealousies. I've seen women practice very
unsafe, daring paddling tactics, etc., etc. Men get accused of always
wanting to go, go, go. I've been on trips where the men, if they hit a
sunny day or two,  would rest and relax and not forge ahead. It depends
on the individuals, know what I mean?

Now maybe I'm going to generalize, gulp! I've just finished reading Sea
Kayaker's account and Wavelength's account of the all women La Nina
expedition that paddled the entire outside coast of BC. I completely did
a double-take, and rethought my views on the entire subject. I was
impressed by some differences that were very apparent with the all women
group. The women seemed to have much better communication regarding
safety and decision making. There was no leader on the trip. All
decisions were relegated to the weakest member - the lowest common
denominator. If anyone did not feel up to the conditions, if anyone
wanted to turn back and it was navigationally possible, that is what the
team did. They also seemed to have - and this is perhaps really
subjective - way more fun than a bunch of guys do on a trip, or one with
even a mixed group.

I noticed Sea Kayaker Magazine has a nascent "psychology" section, that
my friend, Doug Alderson f-i-n-a-l-l-y got his article into about
rolling and visualization/positive thinking reinforcement. Perhaps SK
will delve into this issue of group dynamics, decision making - with
respect to some of these gender differences. Well, just a thought, if
anyone is listening in publication land.

Call me schizophrenic or hypocritical, but maybe there are some
differences. I know the battle will never be over, but at least all us
"real" women and men sea kayakers have a wonderful common denominator -
our love for the sport and the sea.

Melissa has been an inspiration to me from her other posts, and whoever
gets to paddle with her is a lucky human indeed. And don't you dare sign
off the list Kasia (please),  the rest of us inferior species need your
input and perspective.

Respectfully,

BC'in Ya
Doug Lloyd



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From: Richard Kemmer <rkemmer_at_home.com>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Gender Defender (was KP)
Date: Thu, 13 Jul 2000 10:47:50 -0500
Doug Lloyd raises the provocative and irresolvable question of differences
between paddlers of different genders.  Having worked for a female owned and
dominated company after working for a very male-oriented organization, I can
say that there were MAJOR differences.
But darned if I can tell you exactly what they were!  As Doug points out,
individual personalities create so many exceptions that generalizations have
almost no predictive value.

Like Doug, I ruminated on the La Nina expedition article -- especially the
common-sense policy of deferring to the least competent or least courageous
(least foolhardy?) paddler.  That should be the first commandment for every
sea kayaker paddling in a group.

On a related topic, whether you are man, woman, or hermaphrodite, rising
weather is no time to leave less powerful or competent paddlers behind.
More often than not, I have seen strong paddlers get a rush of adrenalin
when the weather worsens and flail off into the distance.  The psychological
release from "beating nature" may be heady,  but  IMO, the heavier the
weather, the more someone might need your help.

These and similar thoughts have been plaguing me ever since I learned of the
deaths of Chris and Erik Shuman.  Last summer, I spent six days paddling
with them at Isle Royale -- the three of us split from a larger group and
did the east end of the island from Rock Harbor up through the Five-Fingers
area to McCargoe Cove and back.  You get to know, respect, depend on, and,
yes, love people when you live and share with them like that.  I still see
them picking blueberries on an "Alpine" ridge of Amygdaloid Island -- a
magical spot from which we could see the Lake stretching away to the
horizon.  Their tragedy is devastating, and I still cry for them at the most
unlikely times.

Their deaths have also left me fearful of making a trip on Lake Superior
later this summer.  I cannot stop thinking about all the things that could
go wrong -- how a wet exit could be thwarted by a tangled paddle leash, how
a wet suit might not provide enough protection in the cold water, what I
would do if such things happened to someone else, etc. etc. etc.  If I
manage to retrieve enough nerve to go, I'll be panic stricken if I see
stronger paddlers leaving weaker ones behind or urging them to paddle in
conditions of which they are afraid. If that happens, I think that, for
once, I'll speak my mind.

BTW, all I know about the Schumans already has been published on this list.
If anyone has any more information whatever about them, would you be so kind
as to send it to me off list.

Rick





Doug wrote:

> I've just finished reading Sea
> Kayaker's account and Wavelength's account of the all women La Nina
> expedition that paddled the entire outside coast of BC. I completely did
> a double-take, and rethought my views on the entire subject. I was
> impressed by some differences that were very apparent with the all women
> group. The women seemed to have much better communication regarding
> safety and decision making. There was no leader on the trip. All
> decisions were relegated to the weakest member - the lowest common
> denominator.


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From: Sailboat Restorations, Inc. <sailboatrestorations_at_worldnet.att.net>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Gender Defender (was KP)
Date: Thu, 13 Jul 2000 12:55:54 -0400
Richard Kemmer wrote:

[snip]
> Like Doug, I ruminated on the La Nina expedition article -- especially the
> common-sense policy of deferring to the least competent or least
courageous
> (least foolhardy?) paddler.  That should be the first commandment for
every
> sea kayaker paddling in a group.
[snip]

Nice post, Rick.  I was moved by your comments about the Shumans.  I haven't
had time to read the La Nina article yet, but the idea of being guided by
the "weakest" member of the group strikes me as so fundamentally right, I
very much like your comment that is should be the basis for all paddling
groups.  I've felt hampered by slower paddlers and wanted to move on (not
that I'm a great paddler, mind you!).  I'm going to strive to avoid that
impulse.  It should be an incentive to two things, perhaps: (1) choose your
paddling partners according to the type of paddling you want to do, and if
it turns out that you made a mistake (*you* made the mistake), adjust your
expectations to the paddlers you are with (love the one you're with <g>);
and (2) if there are people in your group who can't keep up, want to go
back, etc. -- remember: there is a reason to be out there, and it is not
necessarily always to be *paddling* -- it's to enjoy the spot on the planet
that you happen to occupy at that moment: slow down and smell the roses.
Thanks for a nice post.  I enjoyed it.
Mark


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From: Wes Boyd <boydwe_at_dmci.net>
subject: [Paddlewise] Group dynamics (was Gender Defender (was KP))
Date: Thu, 13 Jul 2000 13:28:23
t 12:55 PM 7/13/00 -0400, you wrote:
>Richard Kemmer wrote:
>
>[snip]
>> Like Doug, I ruminated on the La Nina expedition article -- especially the
>> common-sense policy of deferring to the least competent or least
>courageous
>> (least foolhardy?) paddler.  That should be the first commandment for
>every
>> sea kayaker paddling in a group.
>[snip]
>
>Nice post, Rick.  I was moved by your comments about the Shumans.  I haven't
>had time to read the La Nina article yet, but the idea of being guided by
>the "weakest" member of the group strikes me as so fundamentally right, I
>very much like your comment that is should be the basis for all paddling

Right on. I've paddled with groups that will go off and leave a slower
paddler. Needless to say, I don't paddle with them any more.  Not only is
it discourteous, it's downright unsafe. If people are paddling in a group
to have the benefits of the safety of a group, and don't get it, then
they're better off planning to paddle alone, and adjusting their risk level
appropriately.

-- Wes


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From: ralph diaz <rdiaz_at_ix.netcom.com>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Group dynamics (was Gender Defender (was KP))
Date: Thu, 13 Jul 2000 14:12:35 -0700
Wes Boyd wrote:
> 
> >Nice post, Rick.  I was moved by your comments about the Shumans.  I haven't
> >had time to read the La Nina article yet, but the idea of being guided by
> >the "weakest" member of the group strikes me as so fundamentally right, I
> >very much like your comment that is should be the basis for all paddling
> 
> Right on. I've paddled with groups that will go off and leave a slower
> paddler. Needless to say, I don't paddle with them any more.  Not only is
> it discourteous, it's downright unsafe. If people are paddling in a group
> to have the benefits of the safety of a group, and don't get it, then
> they're better off planning to paddle alone, and adjusting their risk level
> appropriately.

Quite a few paddlers treat a group paddle as a group put-in.  Everyone
starts off at about the same time but then some race off.  Obviously
some spreading out is okay if off on the side of a bay or river and
conditions are calm.  But if spread out an effort must be made to at
least stay in some pods in which experienced/skilled paddlers are with
less experienced ones for emergencies.

However when it comes to crossings of traffic lanes or paddling into
windier areas beyond headlands, or other situations where worse
conditions are anticipated, then the group needs to pull together.

The latter is common sense but I was once on a group paddle, a
commercial one, in which the leaders were so rah-rah and intent on
moving fast that the group got quite spread out during a crossing. 
Rather than wait for everyone to catch up and cross as one large pod,
the leaders raced off.  They were fast, athletic types.  Unfortunately,
others with less skill/strength attempted to catch up and followed
leaving kayaks strung out like shooting gallery ducks.  I was in the
last quarter of paddlers (we had stopped to look at an historically
significant structure a few minutes before).

A large cruise ship was heading out to sea.  With the line of "ducks"
arrayed across his bow, it had no where to go and actually stopped
dead.  We saw the middle paddlers right in the ship's path.  Instead of
proceeding we turned 180 degrees paddling away to show the skipper we
had no intention of following our foolish companions into his path.  (If
we had just stopped it may not have made our intention as clear as doing
the 180.)  I have never before seen a cruise ship forced to stop.  Even
though I had no part in the action that caused it, i.e. the lack of the
group leaders attention to waiting for all to cross together, I was
scarlet-embarrassed.

ralph diaz
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From: Wayne Smith <wsmith16_at_snet.net>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Group dynamics (was Gender Defender (was KP))
Date: Thu, 13 Jul 2000 21:03:58 -0400
ralph diaz wrote:

> Quite a few paddlers treat a group paddle as a group put-in.  Everyone
> starts off at about the same time but then some race off.  Obviously
> some spreading out is okay if off on the side of a bay or river and
> conditions are calm.  But if spread out an effort must be made to at
> least stay in some pods in which experienced/skilled paddlers are with
> less experienced ones for emergencies.
>
> However when it comes to crossings of traffic lanes or paddling into
> windier areas beyond headlands, or other situations where worse
> conditions are anticipated, then the group needs to pull together.

Very true. I paddle with one group that is very anti-everything to do with
authority, and one particular year, they were well known to the Coast Guard for
needing to be fished out of the water. No leader of note, no plan, no group
cohesiveness. They started to get the reputation for being paddling cowboys.
Fortunately, this is changing.

I recall one particular paddle where we were crossing a major shipping lane, and
several members of the group (A woman, for the record, was leading this small band)
broke away, and headed straight into traffic, and nearly got run down by a ferry,
because nobody thought to look.

Conversely, on the same paddle, another paddler lagged at least a mile and a half
behind the group, and got angry if anyone waited for her (And she's a strong
paddler, but she does this all the time). The majority of the paddlers, who stayed
together, could have had their day spoiled by these antics.

Gender, in my view is irrelevant, based on this and similar experiences. What is
paramount is group cohesiveness. I thoroughly agree that a group should base it's
decisions on the weakest link in the chain (And I practice this philosophy as
well), but when you run across someone who exhibits the passive-agressive tendency
to call attention to themselves by deliberately lollygagging, the group has to draw
the line, the same as they should if someone bolts ahead --- they're no longer with
the group; they're paddling solo. I announce this before launching whenever I lead
a paddle -- if you don't stay with the group, you're no longer a part of it. (Of
course, if I lead a novice paddle, that requires a whole different apporach)

If you want to paddle at a snail's pace, or at warp speed, why paddle with a group
at all? I'm a relatively fast paddler, and when I want to just burn, or conversely
to poke around, I go solo, or only with paddlers of a similar mindset. It's simple
courtesy (I know, I know, this makes me "weird").

The group in the La Nina expedition would not have faced this in any event -- they
were a small, hand-picked group. Not a club paddle open to just anyone who decides
to show. Huge difference. Most small exploratory or expedition style paddles I've
been on were like this, and they always run smoothly, because the plan is pre-set,
and we've all agreed to abide by it, or change it democratically. And we've always
picked paddlers who could not only do the paddle as planned, but would agree with
the approach, and had personalities that complemented, not hindered, the group
dymanic. You don't need a leader so much as you need a plan that everyone sticks
to, and people of good character paddling with you.

Enough of my rambling for now.......


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From: Kevin Whilden <kevin_at_yourplanetearth.org>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Gender Defender (was KP)
Date: Thu, 13 Jul 2000 10:46:13 -0700
Hey folks,
Depending entirely upon the situation, sometimes my approach to slower 
paddlers is to teach them how to paddle faster. Often the slow speed is a 
sign of poor technique and the paddler may become an increasing liability 
as the trip wears on (depends a lot on the nature of the trip). The slow 
paddler will wear out faster, becoming even slower.

I have found that two things can really slow somebody down:
1. Poor upper body rotation and over-reliance on their arms
2. Feeling of instability from not understanding how to use edging for 
active stability (a problem when there is any kind of chop or waves)

To teach #1, I make the paddler lock their arms straight and then rotate 
their body vigourously side to side while the paddle is IN THE AIR.  Then 
have that person start to dip the blades in the water progressively more 
and more. Tell them to remember how the rotation feels, and gradually allow 
them to bend their arms during the stroke.

Teaching #2 is a bit harder, but is essential because it allows people to 
paddle at fast cruising speeds no matter what the swell, wind waves, or 
wave direction. For starters, the paddler needs to be well-secured in their 
boat -- good hip bracing, thigh bracing, and secure foot pedals. Sliding 
rudder pedals are a distinct liability for achieving good stability. Then 
the paddler needs to practice locking their lower body into the boat, and 
actively hold it flat (or on edge if practicing edging). This is what I do 
in the river in every major rapid, but it works great in the sea especially 
in beam seas. This is tiring at first, but if the outfitting is good, it 
will become second nature after a short while.

Kevin Whilden
(also part-time instructor at the Kayak Academy: http://www.halcyon.com/kayak)



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Your Planet Earth
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From: Dave Flory <daflory_at_pacbell.net>
subject: [Paddlewise] Forward stroke - slow/fast paddling
Date: Thu, 13 Jul 2000 14:01:44 -0700
>Often the slow speed is a 
>sign of poor technique and the paddler may become an increasing liability 
>as the trip wears on (depends a lot on the nature of the trip). The slow 
>paddler will wear out faster, becoming even slower.
>
I've crosspoasted this to PaddleWise and WSK lists as I feel it may be of
benefit to users of both lists (and I want to encourage my fellow WSK
people to join the PaddleWise list, too.)

>I have found that two things can really slow somebody down:
>1. Poor upper body rotation and over-reliance on their arms

After reading this I'm moved to see if I can remember what I was taught
last Sunday at a forward stoke clinic by Brent Reitz. 

Basically the stroke was boiled down to 5 parts. One was getting the
power by torso rotation, as mentioned here. This is the first thing he
had us work on. 

2nd part had the sobriquet of "chicken wing". It consisted of raising the
elbow of the "pushing" arm, at the start of the stroke, so the 'pushing'
arm was horizontal with a bent elbow as in a 'chicken wing'. 

3rd was the "catch" or "insertion" of the blade, spearing the blade into
the water using the upper arm, blade as far forward as possible, without
leaning the torso forward. The latter causes the boat to move around as
your body center of gravity oscillates back and forth. The heavier you
are the more effect this has. 

4 was pushing with a _bent_ elbow and allowing the pushing hand to cross
over the center line, _not_ punching the arm out straight. 

5 was "exit", getting the blade out of the water quickly. The stroking/
pulling hand reaches a point next to the hip and at this point the blade
is quickly sliced up out of the water. If the stroke continues too long
towards the rear the blade starts lifting water instead of pushing
backwards. This effect was very noticeable in one of the guys taking the
class in a long narrow Looksha which wobbled from side to side quite
noticeably until he shortened the end of his stroke and sliced the blade
out instead of lifting water..

The class worked on the first 3 parts and then lunched while watching
videos of us. Then back in the water for the last 2 parts and an attempt
to integrate in a short race, and then a second session of critique on
the video. It was very easy to see what everyone, but especially one's
self, was doing wrong when seeing it on video. Sometimes you are thinking
real hard but not _doing it_ at all. It was interesting to contrast the
first video with the second. You could see improvement in everyone.

In the beginning most of us had very little torso rotation and everyone
was much better at the end. 
I am noticeably faster than before the class, with the same, or less,
perceived effort. Having taught quite a lot, in a different area of
physical arts, I would comment that besides being a _fast_ kayaker, Brent
is a good, patient, sharp eyed teacher. If you ever get a chance to work
with him, I reccomend taking it.
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From: <LedJube_at_aol.com>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Gender Defender (was KP)
Date: Thu, 13 Jul 2000 17:47:46 EDT
    I just needed to voice my strongest agreement with Mark's very insightful 
post.

Jed

In a message dated 7/13/00 5:10:11 PM, sailboatrestorations_at_worldnet.att.net 
writes:

<< I've felt hampered by slower paddlers and wanted to move on (not

that I'm a great paddler, mind you!).  I'm going to strive to avoid that

impulse.  It should be an incentive to two things, perhaps: (1) choose your

paddling partners according to the type of paddling you want to do, and if

it turns out that you made a mistake (*you* made the mistake), adjust your

expectations to the paddlers you are with (love the one you're with <g>);

and (2) if there are people in your group who can't keep up, want to go

back, etc. -- remember: there is a reason to be out there, and it is not

necessarily always to be *paddling* -- it's to enjoy the spot on the planet

that you happen to occupy at that moment: slow down and smell the roses.>>

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From: Philip Torrens <skerries_at_hotmail.com>
subject: Re: [Paddlewise] Gender Defender (was KP)
Date: Thu, 13 Jul 2000 10:48:26 PDT
>From: "Sailboat Restorations, Inc."  Richard Kemmer wrote:
>
>[snip]
> > Like Doug, I ruminated on the La Nina expedition article -- especially 
>the
> > common-sense policy of deferring to the least competent or least
>courageous
> > (least foolhardy?) paddler.  That should be the first commandment for
>every
> > sea kayaker paddling in a group.
>[snip]
>
>Nice post, Rick.  I was moved by your comments about the Shumans.  I 
>haven't
>had time to read the La Nina article yet, but the idea of being guided by
>the "weakest" member of the group strikes me as so fundamentally right, I
>very much like your comment that is should be the basis for all paddling
>groups.  SNIP
>Mark

In SCUBA diving at night, in wrecks, or in caves, the rule is that any team 
member (cave diving requires a minimum of three) can call off any dive at 
any time for any reason, even just "I've got a bad feeling about this".  If 
the other members of the team are behaving as they should, they will not 
require the "caller" to justify the decision to abort.

Philip Torrens
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